Me and miss materialistic (Advice needed)
Me and my gf has been in relationship for about 4 years during our uni together. After she graduated and starting to work, I feel that she is becoming more and more materialistic. During our uni time, we laughed ourway for being stingy. But now she changes. I know she is much clever than me since I know her, and because of that, her salary is doubled than mine. When we are dating, she always asks to go to the ex restaurant, buy branded stuff. First, I can cope and I am willing to spend as long as she is happy. But now i really couldnt afford her anymore, and i just let her pay for what she bought...and yest we had a fight, saying that I dont love her because i never treat her & her family anymore. I said sorry and promise her that i will treat her better. It is just suddenly I dont know her anymore. I am very scared now that I might lose her if I dont spend on her. I really love her, and i dont want to lose her but I also cant pretending that I can afford her. I really dont know what to do anymore...