Engaged but having doubts
Hello everyone,
I’d like to get people’s opinion on this,, which is something that has been bothering me for the past days.
I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 3 and half years. We got engaged three months ago. The problem is that lately I’ve been having some doubts. I love her, there is no doubt about that, but I am not sure I am “in love” I ts hard to explain but I don’t really feel that excitement I have seen in some other couples, although it might be that we have been together for a while now, but I am not sure. I guess the way I am telling it seems kind of simple and I should just break up, but as I said, I really do love her, I just don’t feel that passion I feel I’m “supposed” to feel. If I did break-up however, I ‘m afraid I would be risking a lot. I guess it sounds cold but if I broke up, in a way it would be like betting that I would find someone with whom I can really feel that crazy excitement and passion. I know that with this girl I would have a good life, I love her, she loves me and we are happy with each other but I just have these doubts.
Andrei