My girlfriend's sex drive has been hit or miss as long as we've dated. We'd go a couple days having sex three times a day, and then nothing for a week or two. Additionally the only times she's really wanted sex in a bad way is when she's drunk and/or high.
The thing is, she takes antidepressants, and birth control, and from what I understand they can both trash a girl's libido. She also has self-image insecurities, even though she's one of the sexiest girls I've ever met. To make matters worse, I think she feels like she's letting me down, and that adds to her depression and insecurities.
I can probably help her get past the insecurities, but not the drugs, and she needs to be on the drugs. Does anyone else here have experience with taking medication that effects your sex drive in a negative way? How did you get over it?
I've taken things like horny goat weed during muscle building cycles, and it had me walking around with a boner all day. So I know there are libido enhancers out there that work. But honestly I wouldn't even know how to suggest something like that to her without adding to her insecurities.