Do I get into a relationship? (confused about getting into relationship)
Okay so I'm going to bluntly honest since this is the internet.
I fell in love with this girl when I was a junior/senior in high school and basically my weird situation kinda kept me from trying anything with her (didnt have a car, my house was a warzone so i couldnt invite her over), but none the less i really was feeling her. it was such a bad situation. it was the first time i felt any kind of 'love' thing and it really tore me apart for those years.
but anyway, im in college now, a junior, so that was like 4 years ago. and like i dont know what it is, i dont know if i should get in a relationship or not now. for some reason now i have this cliche feeling in me if i start hanging with a girl i will fall for her fast (because i fall fast) and, getting back to the cliche thing, i feel like i will be with her forever.
its like, i want a relationship, but i feel like i will fall in love so hard that i wont want anything else. it is just scary to me i guess. like because i fell in love with a girl in highschool i could have, it got me really emotional i guess. and if i like girl.. i ****ing LIIIKKKEEE a girl A LOOOOTTTT. and yeah its good because i dont know girls like me too. like i had so many chances to have a relationship, but i shut them all down. because i feel almost disgusted almost of being with some girl forever (maybe because of what happened?)
i dont know, i just feel uneasy because of my past. so should i go for a relationship? i could probably get one easy, but its just i dont kow if i want to. i never had one which is kinda making me want to experience it, but another part of me doesnt want one really. i just dont know.
what do u guys think? im 21 btw.