Hey everyone sorry to make my first post a question but this has really been getting to me.
Background: 19, in college, some sexual experience (5 partners), little to no relationship experience, can be shy/prone to not saying much.
The Situation:Everytime I'm getting intimate with a woman (making out ect.) she ALWAYS asks "What are you thinking?"
I never know what to say to this in part because I introverted and not the type of person that can express my feelings in words..or at least it doesn't come naturally to me and in part because I am usually just thinking about the situation at hand. What are girls looking for here? For me to say some overbearing philosophical statement? I have no idea how to answer this and feel my answer each time has been poorly constructed.