What should I do about this...I feel lied to.
Ok so we have been together about a year, she lies about stupid things sometimes, I don't fully understand why...Here is an example.
She goes away for three weeks so when she comes back of course I miss her, as I expect to be missed at least a little right, well we make plans for the next day, she calls me and says she doesn't feel good ok, fine. Then she goes to the movies with a friend and call me later and tells me about this, says her friend bugged her and she was feeling a little better and she planned to do this with her one day anyways. I get a bit mad cause I got put second when we had plans, fine, then 4 weeks later she says that she just didnt want to see me and wanted to see her friend, and it was her idea after all.
Why not just say this in the first place, I'm always truthful, I hate lies. This erks me, she sees it as not lying cause she eventually tells me(sometimes months later) But really....How am I suppose to feel about this, I just feel betrayed in a way
