We broke up...on valentines...*sigh* was i wrong??
Ok i really liked this girl, but over the past few weeks i've noticed that she was growing distant. she wouldn't call, she wouldn't want to come over my place and sleep.
anyway, yesterday night, she was supposed to come over, we talked around 7pm, then 11:50pm she texts me shes still doing her hair!! i'm thinking why are you doing your hair before you're going to bed? I called her and she didn't pick up, so i sent her a txt saying that i didn't know what happened to her tonight, and that if she didn't want to come over that's fine but i don't appreciate being stood up.
she calls back later and yells at me about how i always cause problems and that i shouldn't be worrying etc... (swearing at me...like she does usually) i tell her fine, it's a misunderstanding and lets forget it and move on (i was thinking maybe she was out with another guy.)
Anyway to the real point!! Today she came over, and i drove her to a really nice restaurant, rustic like place, very nice. I bought her 2 dozen long stem roses and a nice box of chocolates. (the last piece of jewelry i bought she said she was going to flush down the toilet the last time she got mad at me and had a hissy fit, so i decided not to buy jewelry) We had a great brunch, and then i drove her back to my house where she had left her car. On the ride back a few minutes from my house, she asked if i could put all of her documents back on her computer. (she had asked me to fix her computer for her, bc it had a thousand virus's and running so slow the mouse wouldn't move, so i wiped it and put windows 7 on it and made it look all pretty for her.)
So i told her, "sure we can put your stuff back on it, but there a lot of old pictures of your ex boyfriend on it and i don't feel comfortable putting them on your computer."
she says "they're my property and i want to keep them"
I said "you want to keep ALL the old pictures of your ex?? i don't feel comfortable with that, put yourself in my place"
she replies" it's four years of my life, and i don't give a shit how you feel about it, you don't need to concern yourself with things that have nothing to do with you!" (screaming at me)
then she starts insulting me about how i'm not worth S*** and i'm a F****g idiot, and how "you lay with dogs you wake up with fleas" and just insult after insult.
all i ever replied back was "you're insensitive, uncaring, and you need to get over your ex." and i also told her "go home and think about how you treat people" and i would say "look at the way you're speaking to me"
she yells back "i'm not going to ever think about you, you're not worth s***" and insults like that
basically after a while of arguing i told her to leave my house, which btw she was lividly pissed, yelling screaming, physically aggressive. to the point that i actually picked up the phone and dialed the police because she wouldn't leave my house after i had asked her many times. She actually grabbed my throat at one point where i pried myself off of her, and she screams at me don't you ever touch me. she got all up in my face pointing her finger, screaming etc...i was brought up to never hit a woman, i didn't but my patience was tested to the max today.
and that's how it ended.
anyways...it's over, 6 months loss of time. But i'm wondering, was it wrong of me to not want to put pictures of her ex on her computer? i feel that's demascuating to me and i can't believe that a GF would as her CURRENT BF to do that.
