Is this kinda Whoreish??

Been broken up 7-8 months now. Been NC, the ex called or text for two weeks straight, tried to act like nothing ever went wrong then catches herself and will then just say good night or good bye.
I know she had someone move in pretty quick after the break. She swears she doesn't love him or need love. Our relationship was based on nothing but love, we were to be married and she just up and left, no real arguments in three years or anything.

My question is she says she don't love him. Has told others she wants to work it out with me and still will not see me alone because she gets all the old feelings back of our love, told me this as well as some of our mutual friends.

Isn't this kind of being a whore? Living with one person, loving another and still having feelings for.

Doesn't that show no respect for their own self physically and emotionally ?

whoreish? uhh no. Stupid? Yeah.

I would say both slutty and stupid. Get away from her as fast as you can.

I hate it when people do that cos its unfair on everyone involved. Its like she wants the best of both worlds but she is living a lie and will end up hurting both guys involved.

Sounds to me like she is severly confused...she uses the one guy to keep you at a distance probably afraid of commitment since you said you had been together for three years and were gonna get married...she probably heard 'married' and freaked...it happens. While she uses the guy to keep you at a distance she talks about feelings for you so you know that there is still a chance. If you love her tell her you would like to work stuff out but that the other guy has to go. If she won't push the other guy out then walk on.

Well I've been very mean to her a few times just to get her to leave me heal. I've told her she's not the women I fell in love with and we were to get together last week to talk about it but I blew her off.
I am over who she has become but could fall for the women she was. Doing this though tells a lot about her morals and her self respect that is why I asked if it was kind of whoreish.
Oh well I know she'll call again soon so I'll play it by ear.

Is she using this other fellow as a source of financial support?

Could be another reason to steer clear of her.

Some people are too insecure to live alone.