I want my ex back

Am in the middle of a seperation, and all i can think about is getting back with my ex. I have loved him all through my married years, which wasnt fair to my husband then, but i just cant help it. Situations and cicumstances led to me marrying someone else. However, i am getting a seperation, and all i want is my ex. I have written him before and sent him a card expressing wat i feel, but he never responds. should i just concider it a done deal, and probably accept my gut feeling that he isnt interested. Some one please advise me.

Hi Nene,

what a story..

Wasnt respond doesnt mean he won't you. Be positive.
I my opinion, you should plan and take one step at a time.

First, lets your divorce clear first. The, after that plan to get back together with your ex.
Here is some tips might help you :
1- settle your separation and stop contacting your ex for a while.
2- analyze yourself, what's actually make your ex love you before?.. change it..
3- be his friend.
4- don't push or begging.
5- shows that you have changed.

I think this is a very first step...