Hi again
I've been having this discussion on another forum and I can't seem to get my point across (no one gets me), so I'd like your ideas on this:
I have decided that I don't want a relationship. I want to stay single (for know, could change. someday).
And in my humble opinion, sex is something for in a relationship. I don't believe in things like one-night-stands or "sex, just for the sex"...whatever you want to call it. If you do this, fine, go nuts. But for me sex is something special that should be between people who have deep feelings towards eachother (relationship). And who've known eachother longer than 5 hours ;)
But on the other forum no-one seems to understand this idea. Is it really that weird?
They've been joking about hiring "professional help" for me or take me to certain bars where they serve more than drinks. The "joke" is basically to get me laid.
I can't seem to convince them that I don't want sex BECAUSE I don't want a relationship.
I am curious and would like to have sex (someday) but because I want to be single, no sex is an acceptable loss.
So my question is really: Am I really so unique in thinking that sex should be special and between people in a relationship?
(Should the outcome of this be that I'm completely weird, I'm not going to change. I just want to know where I stand. I have rather weird opinions about other topics, so it wouldn't surprise me ;) )