Should i stick with it or call it off

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13-03-10, 11:19 AM
burn3d

Should i stick with it or call it off

So i have a few questions i want to ask your guys opinions of.

Ok so a little back story for you. I was dating this girl for six years and she cheated on me. We didnt talk for a year and now she trying to get back in my life. she has a new boyfriend and has already cheated on him with me. she also says she is going to continue to do so cause she wants to see if we can make a relationship work again, but has stated that she has no intention to dump her new boyfriend just yet. Right off the bat i know this isnt a healthy thing to do.

So here are my questions. Do you guys think its wrong of me to continue going on with this? Do you think its wrong that part of me just doesnt want to care and just use her up while she is still coming around. I mean i still care for her but i dont want to get attached again, cause at any moment she could call it off and start being faithful to her boyfriend again. I enjoy the sex we have and i think im being selfish but i dont want that to stop. There is a part of me that wants a lasting relationship but im just not sure if that could happen with our past. So should i ride this out and get what i can from it or just call it off totally?
13-03-10, 11:22 AM
girl68

Give it up. You are already attached, but you risk getting more attached every second you spend with her. Think about this how can you make a "relationship work" when she isn't even investing the proper amount of time and energy in it? I know you know what you have to do. Does someone just have to say it?

DITCH THE BITCH.

No, I don't want to hear sappy love shit about how great you 2 were blah blah blah.
13-03-10, 11:26 AM
QueenofCorona

I get where you'd want to kind of use her since she cheated on you but honestly you are stooping to her level by knowingly screwing around with her knowing full well she has a boyfriend. You are better than that. Not to mention I'd be grossed out knowing she's sleeping with him too. Sloppy McFlopsalot.

PS I think you are already more attached than you think.
13-03-10, 11:26 AM
misombra

dude, do you really think you're gonna get different answers with another thread?
13-03-10, 12:43 PM
oliviareeves

Hi Pal,
I don't think that a man of wise wits will take this risk again. She is doing this thing like a game, and the girl who couldn't be your after a 6 years can not be your in any case.
So my sound advice to you will be stay away from her....give yourself some space and move on in life.... I am sure you will find a girl far better then hers..best of luck
13-03-10, 02:29 PM
OneQuestion

She cheated on you, and now she is cheating on him WITH you... She is a cheater... Be very very careful... She doesn't have good morals, and she most likely will cheat in the future... BE CAREFUL! You will most likely worry every day if she is cheating on you if you get back together with her!
13-03-10, 02:31 PM
OneQuestion

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Originally Posted by QueenofCorona [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I get where you'd want to kind of use her since she cheated on you but honestly you are stooping to her level by knowingly screwing around with her knowing full well she has a boyfriend. You are better than that. Not to mention I'd be grossed out knowing she's sleeping with him too. Sloppy McFlopsalot.

PS I think you are already more attached than you think.

Yea, that is disgusting... I would never sleep with someone who I knew was sleeping with someone else... hope you don't get aids... or wait... I hope you do...because you are just as bad as her... You aren't the one cheating, but you are the one enabling her to cheat...