i'm really stuck on what to do... need some advice please!
Hey, i thought id come on here and see what you guys thought about teh sistuation.
so here goes..
I met this amazing guy on a dating website about 4 months ago. im 22, hes 23 We started talking on the phone and texting pretty much stright away, spoke pretty much everyday long ohone calls at night and he sent really nice texts to me. He does live about 2-3 hours drive away from me but we decided to meet about a month into knowing eachother (November) and we got on really well, went out with his mates, hung out on the sofa and watched films, just hit it off straight away and fell for eachother pretty quickly.
After our meeting, the level of communication did decrease alot, and for a moment i thought he got what he wanted and didnt want to know me anymore. After about a week of not hearing anything, i asked him if everything was ok between us, and he messaged me back saying that everything is fine, he has been really busy with work over christmas time, and he was sorry if i thought he was off with me.
He doesnt always have credit on his phone, so this is why he is unable to text and call me sometimes.
So i uderstood he was busy and stuff, he would send me the odd text telling me he missed me, and maybe the odd 5 min phone once every couple of weeks. I didnt want to hassle him because i really like him and didnt want to annoy him. he loved the fact i understood how busy he was and we would catch up soon.
A couple of months go past and he calls me (Early feb) and we had a really good conversation, and we both said how nice it was to be talking more often again, he got credit and started texting, although the credit soon went, but it was just reassuring that he was still interested. we spoke every other day mostly for about a month and decided to meet in march, was his turn to come and see me. Again we got on really well, did loads of stuff, we feel really comfortable with eachother, and are really into one another.
So now its been over a week since i lst saw him, and i havent heard from him, apart from the odd text to tell me he got home safely. I text him telling him i really miss him, but no reply, i think due to no credit on his phone. He is the one who normally calls (well pranks me and i call him back), i never like to call because i dont know if hes working or out and about with his mates.
I really dont know what do to, i know we have only see eachother twice, but im not sure how i can cope with these long periods of not talking, and feeling like he isnt interested.
am i being silly?...do i just need patience and wait for him to call like last time?..or is he just playing me?
i really really like this guy, i dont want to petser him, as my previously relationship consistanted of my ex calling me at least 4 times a day, which i hated
i just want reasurance that he still likes me. advice would be greatly appreciated
reagrds
