For all the ladies: Advice needed on a "Reconciliation Attempt"
You were really attracted physically and in all sort of other ways to your EX and "LOVED" him very much. Your EX also "LOVED" very much and supported you a lot! You connected very well, you were lovers, bffs, had a lot of fun, great partners in every life activity: dancing and clubbing, humor, music, movies, hobbies, plans for marriage and family, travels, etc...
Here's the actual situation: Your EX boyfriend did all the attempts he could (texts and calls) of trying to get you change your mind but you had already made up your decision to move on.
You haven't talked for more than two weeks, we're not friends on facebook and she hasn't attempted to contact me either.
Now, I think (bcos I know she loved and cared about me a lot, she wanted me to marry her and I also did) that she would still be attracted to me and she would be able to love me again but "she has lost her faith on me" and she is mad at her self.
She seems that she was over it the first week. She has been partying "non stop" since the break up 4 times a week. and she hasn't attempted to contact me. What I don't understand is:
1) what is this? is she punishing herself?
2) is she using the party time as a way to not think about me and get over me?
3) is she trying to find someone else already? (it would be hard for me to be with someone right now) or msybe its not like this for women??? I'm confused because we loved eachother
3) and (the most important) WHEN would you be ready to talk again?
Thanks a lot :)