Ex is "lost & trying to find what she wants"

Now, I have posted my whole story on the Breakup Forum, But, I still feel like I need to figure out what's going on with my ex. I am still madly in love with her, and her me. But, she wants to "figure out what she truly wants before jumping back in to our relationship" I realize she's doing it because of her age (19), and she really doesn't know who she is. I guess I'm just writing for support and maybe more insight. I'm still trying to figure out, what out there could ever be better than love?

You say she's madly in love with you.

People don't take time out to figure things out, if they are 'madly' in love.

If you are 'madly' in love with someone, what is there to figure out??

She's talking crap. She is using that line and to ensure you stick around, while she's off sampling what else is on offer out there and if it's better than you.