Moving in with the female crush
I'm stuck between a hard place and a rock. There is this girl I've been friends with for years. back in the day she wanted to date, but I was in a long term relationship and it didn't happen. I tried to get with her afterwards and she was no longer interested. This has been going on for years, but our friendship has persisted.
However she'll want to hang out when I'm dating someone else and immediately backs off when I'm making a move. A few weeks ago we had what I considered a date which we have never hung out before by ourselves like that. She even wore make up. I was surprised. It went well and we even made plans to do it again. Nothing ever happened again in the last few weeks. Plans kept being canceled on my end or her end due to work/school but then yesterday she says she wants to move in together. This sends up multiple flags. I assume she has no interest in dating or she wouldn't say this. I have no idea what I should do. I thought we were finally moving to something more. She found an apartment that's two bed rooms and wants to move back into town and I to move out of the dorms.......... two weeks from now.......
Do you guys think it's possible to keep nudging her for something more while I"m living with her? Every time I quit trying though she tries to get my attention. I don't think she'd manipulate my friendship, but maybe she is. Also she's hot and could get any guy she wants, but doesn't.........for w/e reason.