Friend Has Been Breaking Up and Dating This Girl For 4 Years
So I have a friend who has dating one girl his entire life for 4 years. They've broken up 5 times and it's looking like they are going to get back together again soon. I'm a friend of his and do I have any right to hit him? Whenever I'm around him or with him this girl will call, even if they're not dating and they'll get into a fight.
Recent example: She calls him while drunk at a big bonfire a few days ago. He sits there and talks to her, his ex gf, for over 1 hour, arguing about God knows what. So by the time he gets off the phone everyone has left and it's just me and him. He tells his friends it's none of our business what he does, but I say it is when he is always arguing with her around us.
Two more examples: He recently lost his job because of her. The night before he has a morning shift she tells him she is going to get drunk and hopefully get alcohol poisoning if he leaves to go hang out with some friends. This is still when they're broken up. So he leaves and gets a call at like 4 am saying the girl had to be rushed to the ER for alcohol poisoning and he misses his shift and gets axed.
I guess it's just frustrating because it seems like this girl has serious mental issues and my friend is just so caught up in God knows what that he ignores it. I don't know, am I out of line for wanting to yell at him or not?