Love her, but she is too quiet...
Hi,
this is the first time I use this website. After some consideration decided to join to ask for some advice. My girlfriend and I (also female) have been together for 6 months now. She was straight and fell in love with me. There was no sparks for me, but I learned to love her, she got into my heart in a very different way than expected. We are so different, but her love and commitment towards me have made us to work through our relationship bit by bit. It is my first relationship and I am aiming for a long term one. I love her to bits now and learned to have patience with her. We had language problems (still exist), but it is overall going very well now. My problem is, when I spend time with her, I always feel that I am expecting more. I am in love with her, and sometimes just being with her is enough, however she is quiet by nature (although very party outgoing). I always look forward to see her and talk to her, but most of the time it leaves me empty. I feel that I am not talking freely as I would do with friends. I feel like that I am the one who talks most of the time, and I wasn't a talkative person by nature, but I like to have conversation and have long chats. On top of that, it is a long distance relationship now. We have dreams to live together and marry one day. How should I say, i love her personality and she is always there for me. But I miss some passionate talking, romance (it s not in her blood either). Even on the phone...she just like to know that I am there. I have talked about this with her, and I do want to spend time with her on the phone and such. I know I should accept the way she is, but I need to fulfil my need for a passionate and connected conversation with laughter. I do not know how to make myself to be satisfied and feel free with what I have.
thank you for giving any opinions...