Gal of Virginia

I am a 26-year-old Computer Programmer from Virginia who has been in a relationship for over 4-years now. I'm not the sort of girl to fall in love easily. I have had a total of 4 loving relationships though only two of them would I say I actually "Loved" the person I was involved with.

Stangely enough both the relationships where I ended up falling in love started on the Internet. It was not planned that way it just sort of happened. I'm a bit of a recluse and do not get out much, I spend a great deal of my time online either in forums, on Facebook or playing whatever game I happened to be addicted to at the time. The latest is World of Warcraft.

Personality wise I'd like to think of myself as a rather mellow, reclusive, introspective sort and while rational in most things I have a totally goofy sense of humor.

I have no kids and I've never been married. I was engaged once (to the first man I ever loved) though the relationship ended extremely badly (long story). My thought is that I only want to be married once which is why my relationships tend to be long but marriage has never come into play. For me marriage is more than just "going steady with a diamond ring" it's a true life-long commitment down to the very soul of a person and should not be jumped into as a fling.

I do eventually want kids, but I think kids should come after marriage so... I wait. :)
I do have two cats. In some ways they're like permanent toddlers...eating, pooping and destroying things by accident.