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One nighter?
Ok so.. I had a date two nights ago with a guy I've been talking to for a couple weeks. We didn't really do anything all that extravagant or anything, we just drove up to this spot I like that over looks the city; it's really pretty at night with all the lights. Anywho, we just sat and talked for a few hours about random things. Well.. To try and cut this short, it went a lot farther than I intended it to go for a first date. In fact I told him that I wanted to stop because I'm just not that kind of girl.. Which he was very nice and understanding about it. Well, we got dressed and just went back to talking for another hour or so before he took me home. He told me that he did like me and that he did want to see me again. However, I haven't heard from him since then. Granted, I know it's only been a couple days, so it's not that big a deal.
What do you guys think about it?
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I think you should give it a little more time. Say a week.
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Give it some more time. You could always shoot him a text telling him you had a nice time and would like to do it again. However, let him take you out this time. If he's really into investing some time into you, he'll drop a few dollars on dinner. If he wants to head back to that same spot to "look at the lights", then he's after one thing.
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Let him call you. Don't show that your too interested just yet. If you haven't heard anything by a week or so and you still want to catch up with him, write him a quick message saying to catch up.