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how do i have to behave and dress and talk to make a guy feel compelled to ask me out. he is a responsible sort of person very mature for his age (he's about 22) so i don't think he would go for a bimbo type with every bit of skin reveled. we don't talk as don't see each other that often (he's my 3 doors down neighbor), i really want him to notice me, please help, i didn't want to tell my friends that i like someone so don't really know who to get advise from !!!
why don't you just start a conversation with him and spark his intellect rather than trying to be visually appealing to him.... if he's that "mature" type.
raverboy
Every guy is different. Who know...even if he appear mature, he might be into the skin revealing type. LMAO. My advice is to just be yourself. If he doesn't like you then he isn't the right guy for you.
maybe you should post a picture so we could tell you what style would fit you best?
I agree with him. I've passed great looking women up because they couldn't hold a conversation with me and push my buttons so to speak. Engage him mentally.Quote:
why don't you just start a conversation with him and spark his intellect rather than trying to be visually appealing to him.... if he's that "mature" type.
Next time you see him, look at him and smile. At least you would have initiated some sort of contact. Then progress from there.
Changing yourself for some random dumb guy is never worth the hassle. Just be yourself. If he doesn't like that f*ck him.
That being said, you should always strive to be the best version of yourself. Just make sure it's your style and you're not trying to please someone else.
bullshit, men are stimulated visually.
Regardless, there needs to be a compatibility of intelligence going on. It doesn't matter how good looking a guy is to me in the end. If he can't keep up with me conversationally, then I have zero interest in pursuing anything.
HOWEVER, initial attraction is visually based. How do you find out if someone you're interested in can even hold a conversation? You have to base it off of looks at first. It's not just about how you dress, or how you do your make-up. The look has more to do with confidence. Do you walk with your shoulders back, or do you slouch and shuffle your feet? Do you feel confident in how you look?