i need a lil help plz

im new 2 all this but i really need some help. i have known this girl for few months and just resently these last 2 weeks i have bin hanging around with her a lot and i have really really injoyed so much yesterday i asked her out. but she said maybe and 2day she said duno she just wants some time 2 think urm at first when she said maybe i fort i mite have a chance i didnt even expect her 2 say that so i was really happy but now i gunna be so upset if she says no i think im fooling in love with her and i anit evening goin out with her and another thing is she said what will our m8s say. im really shy spking bout her 2 her if u no wat i mean and i do wanna tell her how much i like her cus then if she hears it from me she mite say yes cus all she has heard is it comin from m8s. i liking her more and more everyday but everyday i think she mite say no i dont think i can tell her how much i like her cus im 2 shy HELP?

if you are to have a successful relationship, the most important thing is communication. You must start talking to her more.

I once liked someone to the point of thinking about them nearly constantly but i was too shy around her (am not normally shy) and i dont know why... anyway to cut a long story short i met someone else who i could easily talk to, we then went out for 8months.

communication is the key, if its not there, how will it work? its nearly impossible.

cheers but i do talk 2 her its jus she says she dont want a bf and if she did she would be going out with me now my m8 still thinks in a couple of weeks she will be going out with me but shes kinda avoiding me not really bad but just going off with other people but me if she can. she said no 2day bcus she dont want bf i feel really wired its like we was going out and shes just broke up with me and i feel kinda heart broken i no every1 probley going to say just move on its just 1 girl but not to me shes 1 in million cant let her go.

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Originally Posted by sointoyou

cheers but i do talk 2 her its jus she says she dont want a bf and if she did she would be going out with me now my m8 still thinks in a couple of weeks she will be going out with me but shes kinda avoiding me not really bad but just going off with other people but me if she can. she said no 2day bcus she dont want bf i feel really wired its like we was going out and shes just broke up with me and i feel kinda heart broken i no every1 probley going to say just move on its just 1 girl but not to me shes 1 in million cant let her go.

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you did things too quickly

i hate to break it to you, but the literal translation means "i don't want to go out with you because....."

don't be surprised if she starts dating somebody else very soon afterwards

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Originally Posted by sointoyou

cheers but i do talk 2 her its jus she says she dont want a bf and if she did she would be going out with me now my m8 still thinks in a couple of weeks she will be going out with me but shes kinda avoiding me not really bad but just going off with other people but me if she can. she said no 2day bcus she dont want bf i feel really wired its like we was going out and shes just broke up with me and i feel kinda heart broken i no every1 probley going to say just move on its just 1 girl but not to me shes 1 in million cant let her go.

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Maybe you just need to keep it slow and don't go too fast on having a relationship or whatsoever. Become friends with her and hang out like friends first then move from there. In the past, I realized that women wants guys who are confident and are hard to get. If you're confident enough yourself, she'll like that. Quit on following her around and pretend that you don't see her. Like I said, women likes guys who are hard to get.

Women who usually says that they don't want bf means that they're not interested/attracted to you or just wants to have fun right now and see what's out there.