Need some jealousy advice??
Alright, so my fiance and one of her co-workers used to be f-buddies. Its taken me a while to get over the fact that they see each other and interact everyday. Im ok with that, and its getting better and to a point where im starting to not care. But i cant stand when she talks about him, or what he did or said, or when she mentions his name. She brings him up almost everyday, but its always in context of work. They work directly together, and need each other to perform their job well. And rarely does she bring him up outside of work context, IE past stories and such. I just dont wanna be in the wrong because they do work together closely, and when i ask her about her day, hes her direct partner at work, so its inevitable that she talks about him. I still hate it tho. And because they work together so closely, i also dont want her to feel like she needs to curb what she says. But, at the same time, is it wrong of me to ask that she not talk about him, even tho they are direct co-workers?. If its wrong of me to feel this way, well too bad, i do. My question is, would it be alright if i asked her to not bring him up or mention him? And if so, how should i approach it? And if its not a good idea, why not?