Flirting with someone who timmid

I'v been dating this girl a few weeks now and we recently started to become quiet and never flirt, i'm always trying to talk about things but she never keeps a convo going of flirts or smiles. I'v spoke a lot to her tonight and she thinks I don't show my affection thats why she finds it hard to talk, but imo shes the one not showing affection so I feel like if I flirt I would be flirting with a serious up tight friend and I can't bring myself to flirt like I usually would with her because of how she is, but she wants me to be and I don't think she realises she isnt exactly inviting.

Do you have any tips on how to start flirting with her as she is quite a timmid person too.

Hmmnnn. If you REALLY TRUELY Trust her and she seems like a person who wouldn't spread secrets and rumors around, start a conversation about things you've never told anyone about. (i.e. - Favorite Dead Relatives, Goals in life that other people would think is farfetched, etc.)

If not (Or afterwards), start making dirty jokes. (Nothing too offending. Play a game of "What's Under My Kilt")

GAME
- This is a game where you think up off objects that SOUNDS dirty, but would be an every day object.
"What's long and firm, but can get squishy if you squeeze it too hard."
"A Banana! Ahahah! You thought it was a P---s!"

"It's bushy, you can pet it, and it'll twitch if you yank at it."
"A Kitty! Ahahahah!"

Etc. It's a fun game. Makes people laugh.

tell her everything you just posted--let her know you're trying.

flirt with her a LOT.. check out the funny & cocky method here:
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thanks i'll try those i'm going out with her thursday, probly fri and maybe sat, and going her m8s bday party the following thur so I figure I'v gotta really get into things with her and kiss her before next thur would you agree? I'm thinking of kissing her this thur. I txt her the other night telling her I am going to be completely open with my emotions from now on so I think she may expect it as well.

Go slow with girls.

this is how it was with my g/f, i'm her first bf and we're 14.

4th month-hug
5th month-kiss
6th month-make out
7th month- (now) feel up

anything before that..nothing just dates. the patience pays off ;)

First date: hugged
Second date: Flirted quite a bit, hugged
Third date: Bita close contact over clothes
Forth date: Everything in reverse, no flirting
Fifth date: No hugging
Sixth date: **** all lol

Since then I have spoke to her loads about shit n she reckons I don't show my emotion but thats just a cover for something because I really do. I figure i'm just gonna make out with her on thur if I get the slightest chance, either way im gonna flirt like mad!