Should I worry over guys female best friend?
I"m 38 recently divorced and just started dating again. I met this 43 yr. old guy about 2 months ago at my gym and we have been dating about 4 weeks. We have a lot in common but theres one "issue" thats bothering me. His "best friend" is a single 33 yr old female. He spends the same amount of time with her(even overnight trips) as he does me yet I have never met her. All three of us enjoy the same outdoor activities but not once has he invited me to join him and his "friend" or had her join us. Hes also "funny" with his cell phone there are some calls he gets that when he sees the # and won't answer and I have to wonder if its his "friend". Not once has he talked to her on the phone in front of me and I find that hard to believe shes never called when I was with him. I asked why he never dated her as they spend so much time together and seem to have a lot in common. His response was they decided to stay just friends. He said with her being young she did not want the baggage that comes from dating a divorce man(kids/exwife). I want to believe him but something just sounds fishy. What do you guys think?