So I had sex with my roommate...
Hi everybody, this is my first post here. I'd really appreciate any advice you may have on the matter!
So, this guy and I have been friends since August of last year. I moved into a unit in his house last March. Every evening if we're both home, he makes dinner and we watch movies, strictly platonically.
BUT, On the 4th of July, I didn't have anyone to hang out with or anywhere to go for the holiday. He got invited to a bar, but since I couldn't go (I'm 20, he's 30) he decided not to either. Since neither of us were going anywhere, he opted to just eat dinner, drink some sake, and watch a couple movies, as usual. Thing is, there's been loads of sexual tension ever since I moved in. I hadn't been with anyone in a year, he hadn't for two years.
Soooo...a little sake turned into a lot of sake, he touched me and the rest is history. We had two hours of loud sex, then cleared off the dinner table and passed out in our respective beds.
The next morning, things were pretty much normal. We both agreed it wasn't a big deal, and if one of us starts dating, we'll still be friends but we'll just stop having sex with each other. So it's been a week and a half now, and we're both very, very happy with this plan of ours. ;) But I just feel like I need to ask...What are some important things I should be discussing with him? Should there be more rules? Is it possible to have this kind of relationship without eventually "catching feelings" about him? Has anyone else ever done this?
Also, we have a lot of mutual friends and we may end up having to explain what's happening...how would we describe this kind of relationship?