My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. I moved 3,000 miles away to live with him 6 months after we got together. Things have been pretty good between us, or so I thought, until about a month ago. Prior to a month ago, we were discussing marriage, children, and already started saving for our first home together. Now he is becoming more and more distant. A month ago, he had a very very minor surgery, and we decided to hold off on being intimate during his healing time (about a week). During that week he spent a lot of time reigniting his passion in the bible, and religion. Since he began reading, he has become colder and colder to me. Now the future we had discussed is taking a back seat to other possibilities he has in his mind. He's told me he want's to become celebate, and that he doesn't know about marriage, and he's thinking an even stronger no about children. He constantly nit picks how I word stuff, and twists what I am trying to say, as if he is trying to start a fight. But he doesn't get upset until he completely shames me and makes me frustrated and upset. I feel like he is trying to find a way out of this relationship. That he doesn't love me anymore. When I ask him if that is what it is, he smiles and kisses me sweetly on the forehead, as if I am crazy for thinking that this is even happening. Am I crazy? Or is there something fishy? Is there any way I can get him to open up to me? As to why he is changing his mind, and so incredibly fast? Am I just blindly hoping and holding onto any small fragment of hope? When there is nothing left?
