She doesn't call.. umm, oh shit?

hey guys, well.. i feel like i'm the only one calling her n shit, and i really want help with this cuz it feels really bad and sometimes i get home and i look on the caller ID to see if she called and she didn't :( and what i decided to do was just to stop calling her for a while and wait until she calls. 7, almost 8 months now of a hella good relationship, but please, do this:

1) be as frank and you can in your responce

2) if you think my attitude ****'s things up, tell me

3) be as harsh, honest, and meaningful and you can

4) remember, i'm just a smart ass 14 year old--i don't get offended easily lol

I think thats a great idea, make her realise how much she wants you.

Talk to her about it...

Lt i do this alot where i dont call sometimes i dont feel it nessesary to call ken and this bothers him but when i do call its fantastic! ok ex... last nite i had to pick up chris in mia i told him this. i returned home and then i usually lay down w/chris cuz since im in school and work i barley can spend time w/him, so i end up passing out! Ken didint call me at all cuz he was waiting to see how much i wnated (and he was out) to call heck how can i when im sleeping!? so as soon as i woke up i txt him and left him a message. we spoke today and i let him know that he can call me too and not to make it some calling games with the whole you can call me first crap cuz truthfully i dont think that its nessesary to always be calling. am i f*ucked for that? i dont think so. im not the type to be calling on a constant.

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Originally Posted by csm

Talk to her about it...

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+1 on this1

communication is key thats my motto! yup yup

communication is definately the key

i talked to her today and she was thinkin' about me a lot n shit but she never called. it pisses me off sometimes. i think i'm done calling her for a while, and i told her this but she didn't say anything back. i'm just--done for right now. it annoys me to no end! i'll wait a little bit and see what happens.

You need to calm down a bit. Don't ruin a relationship just because she doesn't call you. Does she talk to you when you call her? If so, what's the problem?

yeah, like what exactly is the situation here. is it that you 2 have the same routine everyday. do u come home from school or practice later than she does so you always call her?!? maybe she's just gotten used to knowing you are going to call her and doesn't worry about it. CSM makes a good point. As long as the relationship is still going good and your convos are fine when you call her....what's the problem?!? if you are feeling that she isn't as interested in you as you are to her because you are always calling on her just be honest and tell her about it. That's what i would do!

ahhhh thx guys. i knew my attitude might **** things up. w00t w00t

i simply stopped calling her and now she's been calling me a shitload--heh heh i like it :D cuz she was like "sorry i haven't been calling" and realized that i just didn't call after a few days and now she calls a lot.