my girlfriend has always been telling me that she doesn't mind if i have sex with other girls as long as it's only sex and it doesn't develop to something else.(especially when i chat to other girls i know when we're going out for a beer or stuff)
I haven't and neither planned to do that , but i'm just curious what's on her mind.
Maybe it's because she wants to have sex with other guys besides you, or is already having sex with others besides you.
well, that seems plausible.
so how would i approach her on this matter?
because it's kinda bugging me.
umm, p.s.
she has sex with lotsa chicks tho and i told her that i'm ok with that.
and she started saying that she loves me about a month ago (early, i know) and she said that she really likes that i don't wanna have sex with other girls. but then she reverted to "you can if you want to" , without me even asking.
straight up. I'm not sleeping around and I don't want to. this is not an open relationship is that what you want?
hmm , thanks girl 68.
and another question - should i bring it up before telling her this or wait for her to tell me that again?
Tell her tonight on your terms.
that kinda stuff can't just be one way. tell her you won't do it so she she shouldn't. unwritten rule is it not?