Advice Needed - Is it true that 'no contact' is the best way to get your ex back?
Hey everyone...
I split with my ex girlfriend around a week ago and well it is hurting because I know just how great a match we were for each other :( Although it takes two and there are faults on her side too I feel to blame because I tried to stop her working in a night club which is controlling and put her off me.
Due to distance little arguments have happended and well I think she just gave up in the end trying to make it all work out.
She said that she just didn't feel the same anymore.
In the end a little insecurity and me chasing her killed it at the end, the advice i get from both female friends and from an ebook that I purchased is to leave it.
I left a tearful voicemail at the end but it didn't do much damage, I received an email later at night about a parcel that had gone astray and she said not to worry about it and put a kiss at the end - why did she do this?
Apparently she will only appreciate me when she misses me and when I am no longer there - apparently she needs to put value on me once again.
The ebook mentioned a 4 week period for this, my female friends who are genuinely trying to help all say the exact same - let her come to you.
I would like to text her and request talks but I am fearful that this will undo any good work done by applying the 'no contact' rule.
Can you all please advise on what you all think about the 'no contact' rule etc, she does seem to work this way.
Thanks