What to do if you don't love them

1. Suppose you are in a relationship with someone, and they are the best boyfriend/girlfriend ever -- they treat you right, they are fun, they are caring and thoughtful etc., and then to top it all off, they tell you that they love you. If you don't love them back (in spite of all their wonderful qualities), should you break up with them?

2. If your boyfriend/girlfriend is just as wonderful as the person described above, but you don't love them and know you never will, should you end it before they even say those three words? Is it wrong to be in a relationship with someone who is amazing but you know you will never be in love with them?

What I don't understand myself is why is it that the person you described in #1 gets dumped, then the one dumping decides to fall in-love with someone completely the opposite, gets hurt after, asks themselves why there isn't one good guy/girl left in this world. Then starts generalizing that all guys/girls are like this or like that.

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Originally Posted by rdizzle [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

should you break up with them?

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Yeh, otherwise you are just leading them on or worse, using them