my girlfriend started hanging out with this guy a few months back, most of the time with one or two of her friends when she did. it never bothered me, i accepted the fact of having an opposite gender friend. she has a few other male friends but shes never really hung out with any of them much since we started dating. then i started getting stories from her, telling me that this male friend wanted to hook up with her, after struggling with this i would get over it, then they would hang out again and again. the last i heard he wanted to get her drunk so shed sleep with him. ive talked to her about it, she clear understands i hate this guy and it bothers me not just when they hang out but even when she txts him. but im not going to control her and tell her who she can and cannot be friends with. she went to a party at his house, telling me she probably wouldnt drink. through the night, the few txts that i did get, she was drunk. i dont think she would ever cheat on me, but what should i do? ive talked to her about it and honestly i think its unfair for her, knowing how much it bothers me, to continue hanging out with him let alone getting drunk around him.