I've changed from trusting to possessive girlfriend :( ...am I thinking right?
If he had things to hide on his phone and persisted that I can't see it, then surely he was doing/had something he didn't want me to know about.
Cheating: doing something you wouldn't do if your partner was there.
It was later revealed that he'd had messages from 2 different girls who 'fancied him', and he was worried about how I would react.
Do I have the reason to worry that other 'things' could be going on that I'm unaware of?
I became an personally-unatural possessive girlfriend, when before I was almost too trusting.
A year on, I brought it up again and he said something like 'well you should have been more possessive'. This made me feel very angry as I didn't used to be possessive until this actually happened (which was a good thing back then?!)
What should I do? He reassured me that he loves me and me only now, but I keep getting flashbacks to the first few months we were going out, and he wasn't as open about things due to 'bad past experiences with possessive girlfriends'.