She says she is a virgin, I say she's not
i work with a girl that boosts and brags about her virginity, saying she is saving herself for marriage. She does this around the boss and people she wants to impress. But when they all leave she tells me how she will do anything but vaginal sex. She has anal and oral sex with her boyfriend and a few other perverted things I never heard of nor do I want to repeat. She doesn't know that I really am not impressed and actually find her to be a big fat lie. To me pretending to be holy and publicly announcing her convictions while privately finding loopholes in the literal definition is more immoral than the actual sin of premarital sex . She proclaims that God gave us these desires and it is up to us how we handle them, that there is a right way (getting married) and a wrong way (premarital sex). But I don't think God meant gettin freaky anal style to be an acceptable alternative. She is still giving herself to him and fulfilling her own perversions yet she feels she is Godly and above those who do have sex, like me. I do not tell anyone because I do not figure that it is my place therefore i cannot talk to anyone that knows her about how i feel because they will instantly know who I am speaking of. I just want to know if I am the only one that sees it this way. I posted a personal question earlier and really got some good advice so I thought I would ask about this and see what kind of feedback I received.
