Some advice needed pls

Ok this is bit of a confusing story here. My gf broke off our almost 1 yr loving relationship about bit over a month ago and had a big sob/cry over it, said she didnt love me anymore etc etc, so in about 4 weeks time I applied NC to her, yes this means I did not contact her at all non what so ever.

Well anyhow one my of friends at work (female friend) who also knows her as well said to me that she feels the my ex gf wants to make up and in someways for us to get back together again but she wants me to make the move etc or I hate to say this "crawl" back to her, prob crwal is not the right word to use but like I said she knows I still do love her and wants us both back, but its me that needs to make the first move.

Sorry she busted it, I still do love her very much and yes I'd like to get back to her, but now I also want to play my games as well with her.

I dont believe or want to crawl back to her, if she want me back or we want each other back whats the best solution?

Advice and help needed and ppls feel free to ask any questons you want.