i am so obssesed with him..help! does he want me or no?
i am really confused and i asked a lot of questions about this but i want to clear things up and want other views on this. i was seeing this older guy from work who is 36 (im 22) casually. like **** buddies pretty much. he gave me a couple mixed signals. but over all thought he was using me for sex because he showed no romantic interest in me. didn't treat me all that nicely either. he would start inviting me out to bars and stuff and would ask me to bring a friend. i think to get access to more younger girls. he would always try to **** my friend behind my back and hit on young girls at work all the time. anyways he invited me and my friend out to a bar one night. he was ignoring me and i was upset about him trying to get with my friend. so i tested him by kissing his friend (not infront of him but he ended up seeing it happen). anyways he ended up getting really mad/jealous over it. started yelling at me over small things and bad mouthed me around work. he never told me he was mad about it. he told me that he didn't care. but he told my friend he was mad. anyways now we don't even talk anymore. i miss him. and im thinking if i should apologize? it's been almost 2 months. i think that he may have treated me this way because his gf of 7 years dumped him 3 years ago. why did he get jealous? is it possible that he likes me? if so why hasn't he made a move? it's been a year. im just so confused. now im not so sure if he actually liked me all along (secretly) or if he really was using me