I'm a guy, I'm 24, and I'm a virgin...yeah. Need some advice on a situation.
Hey, thanks for opening my thread. Well the title says it..I'm 24 and I'm a virgin (I'm a guy) and I know this is very uncommon. I don't think I'm ugly or anything, girls always tend to like me and tell me that I'm attractive, etc. I'm 6'3" and slim, regular looking I suppose. I've only dated a couple times in my life and they weren't really serious and were short, always ending because one of us had to move away or something of that sort. I've hooked up with girls before, probably a half dozen times or so, but never have gone all the way. I've gotten BJs and all that, just have never have had sex for some reason. The problem is now that I'm 24, I'm very nervous for the time when I lose it because I'm afraid I'll just be terrible and I'll be humiliated. I also feel at the same time that I would be way too embarrassed to tell a girl that it's about to be my first time given my age, even though they'll probably be able to tell either way. Basically, I really want to lose my virginity because it's bringing out depression in me almost everyday, I think of myself as inferior to my friends and basically everyone I see. None of my friends even know that I'm a virgin, I just never really talk about it. Anyways, next weekend I'm going on a trip with some people to basically party for the whole weekend and a girl that's in our group of friends keeps telling other people I know that she really likes me and wants to get with me, etc. She's really hot too...everyone says so...which makes me really nervous to approach the situation. This isn't the first time this has happened with a girl liking me, but I've let the other situations fade away due to my nervousness. I'd love for this to happen and work out, but the thought of the embarrassment that can arise given me being a virgin is killing me and I don't know what to do. Any advice would really be appreciated. Thanks a lot for taking the time to read this and help me out, I really appreciate it.