I am in a relationship for almost 10 years. My boyfriend and I pretty much have decided we're not getting married for whatever reason. We have a house together and keep our banking separate for the most part. About two years ago, I had found some text messages on his phone which were questionable. He left his phone home one day and I texted this girl to come over, acting as him. She showed up and I asked her involvement with him. She was shocked, of course, but seemed very honest in telling me that she was just a friend who worked with him. She said that she was surprized he even had a girlfriend because he always tells people he's alone and he seemed to have a crush on another coworker. She also said that I seemed like I was much better than him and to move on. I was completely upset by this and confronted him. He denied it and we eventually moved on. I stayed with him, like an idiot. The past two years since have been crap, in part because I just don't care anymore. Today I was checking his cell phone and found more questionable texts. I confronted him and he flipped out. I just don't know what to do-I'm not sure I even care for him anymore. It seems like I stay because it's easier that way. Please if anyone can give advice or if you need more info, please let me know. Thanks!