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I'm going on 19 and I've never had sex. Not because no guy ever wanted it, but because I'm afraid to show my vagina. I feel like-- he's going to laugh or think my vagina's wierd looking.
I feel like I'll never know what he thinks of my vagina because he'll not want to hurt my feelings.
How do I get over this fear of showing my vagina? Girls: what helps you relax?
Is there anything unusual about your anatomy? Or is this just typical shyness?
And girls say guys are more superficial, lol. Stop worrying about what your vagina looks like. At least your sexual prowess isn't judged by the size of your genitals
Seriously, you probably have nothing to worry about. Almost all girls are insecure about the way they look. Guys love vagina. They love it so much, they are willing to spend hours eating it. There are a few vaginas that are not as 'cute' as others; however, there are some guys out there that prefer the non cute ones. It's all a matter of taste.
Wow. I mean, trim it a little. That's all you got to do. Relax. Vaginas are universally gross but once your man's sporting wood he won't give a damn what it looks like.
It's not like guys don't feel somewhat insecure about their penises?
Just remember it's your body and the only one you've got, so learn to love it . . . and girls have vaginas and they manage okay, you should too
By the time a guy gets that far he's going to go for it.
Keep the light off if you're worried
I suspect your vagina is the same as anyone else's
I'd take an ugly vag over no vag anyday. but that's just me.
I sincerly suggest watching "vagina monolouges". I have JUST watched it. It was really funny. Some parts were hard to hear or watch, or touchy subjects but you'll honestly just have to grow comfortable with it.
Look at it, inspect it, play with it, clean it, trim it, smell it (after you're clean). It ain't going anywhere so you best just get used to it and get to know it. It will be the source of much pleasure, but I assure you- if you stay clamed up and embarrassed about it you won't get very much pleasure at all!
And yes, I felt like you ashamed, embarresed, "it's ugly"- so what it's a vagina, ain't nothing I can do about it except take good sweet care of it.
Thanks to porn, most guys have seen a lot of pictures of vaginas and are unlikely to react badly to the sight of yours.
Why don't you save it to show to the guy(s) whom you trust enough not to laugh at you in an sense like that? If he laughs, then you probably showed it to the wrong person!
You are kidding from this post right?
She really does have an ugly vagina...
As long as the guy doesn't feel he's either:
A) Throwing a hot-dog down a hallway
or
B) hearing the song 'Welcome to the jungle" when you take off your pants
your good.
Ok this poster has started how many threads now and not commented at all on them?