Thinking of breaking up with her, but she did nothing wrong.
I have been thinking about breaking up with my long distance girlfriend of 10 months but she has not done anything necessarily to deserve it. She is loyal, gorgeous, in shape, has her own job, cute, does not like to party, does not make me jealous or anything like that but for some reason after we made a decision for her to finally move in with me, I have been really considering breaking it off. I am having these thoughts because now she will be in my state away from her family, friends, job...her life...just to be with me. This puts so much pressure on me to replace what she is leaving behind and I alone cannot replace that, it is so stressful. Also, with her moving in, it makes me realize that this is a long long term commitment...we are talking marriage and babies for a destination. I am in love with her...I do not why I am thinking like this. I am 23, I have my own job and place...I dated enough...Why am I all of a sudden thinking like this? I was accepting of this since I have not physically seen her in 6 months, I do not feel that passion like I used to...maybe I should at least see her before I make such a big decision...I do not want to shatter her heart. What do you think?