condoms

hey. wtf is wrong.. I know contraception is a vital thing, yet just recently I become mr.floppy pretty much as soon as the condom goes on. I thought this would be a good place to see if anyone else has had similar problems, or any ideas on what to do (I don't need viagra or anything btw, take the condom off and we have lift off lol!!) I think it's something psychological. I'd really appreciate any help you guys can offer, please don't just take the piss out of me (this is supposed to be a forum for discussing things helpfully, I hope!)

i think it is phsycological too....

maybe let her put it on 4 u instead of u doing it urself......

tried it, no difference :sad2: maybe I need hypnotism or something lol :(

an ex of mine had this problem. are u sure the condoms are the right size?? could they be too small. my ex was very large. both in length and girth. so it was hard to find condoms that weren't tight on him. we didn't stay together for much longer after that. (not b/c of the sex, but b/c we were going away to diff. schools) so i really don't know what he did about it. but that could be a solution to ur problem.

That's possible actually, I'll give that a go. I'd never really considered that, always thought it should be a fairly tight fit so it doesn't come off?!? How tight is it meant to be typically lol (sorry for asking but I have never seen other men with condoms on hehe)?

Thanks for the replies you two :) abercromqt20 I'll owe you a lot if this works, lol!!

Tight enough that it doesn't slip off when you "pump" (lol) but not so tight that it feels like it is constricting the blood supply. Just get yourself a pack of extra larges and see if it makes a difference. If you don't want to risk wasting your money, surf the web and see if you can find recommended sizes for each type of condom that is out there. There is bound to be a site out there like that somewhere. Good luck and think happy thoughts. lol

mr flubber...


raverboy

dont use the condom

please disregard that! ofcourse you should still use protection. not only does it keep her from getting pregnant, but it keeps both of you safe from stds!

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Originally Posted by Frebbiezadyke

dont use the condom

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Do you actually serve a purpose in this forum? Didn't think so.

bianca's right..... don't even consider just not using a condom as one of your options. let us know if using a bigger condom works for ya. if it doesn't we will take it from there. but please ALWAYS use protection. for her sake as well as your own~

use a bigger size one?

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Originally Posted by kanzaki

use a bigger size one?

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A bunch of us have already suggested that.

thanks for the replies :) I will post back as soon as I know if it works!.. or maybe a few hours after I know if it works ;)

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dont use the condom

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...don't worry I'm not about to go around having unprotected sex lol

I appreciate your helpful comments

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Originally Posted by imissyou

thanks for the replies :) I will post back as soon as I know if it works!.. or maybe a few hours after I know if it works ;)

...don't worry I'm not about to go around having unprotected sex lol

I appreciate your helpful comments

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You're quite welcome. I am very glad that you wouldn't consider having unprotected sex. Finally, someone who cares about his future and his girl. ::claps:: It's refreshing to find out that some people these days still care about their well being. Thanks for reminding me of that. :D