Unable to understand him..plz help.
My best friend cares a great deal about me n understands me a lot.He brought me out of depression after my break up with my ex.At that time i asked him out n he said accepting that would be like taking advantage n he refused.Months passed n we moved to different cities.We are very much in contact.One day he told me he wants to kiss me, hug me, dance n roam with me.I giggled n made fun of it.Then idk i started falling for him n asked him out again.He said after his break up he doesn’t want to be serious though he wants a gf but not me ( coz he cant hurt me ). But then soon things got a lil rosy between us n our flirting began.N he told me that hes dying to be in a relationship with me but cant marry me (diff religions) till I convert but he wouldn’t want me to do that just for the sake of marriage.We decided to meet during common holiday n moved to our home state but coz of family affairs couldn’t meet n both got frustrated.N he just concluded on that that he doesn’t love me. Even i don’t love him at this stage but i want to give it a try.After a few days i just said, “U’re so unromantic..poor ex of urs” ..to which he replied, “ I don’t feel romantic with u”.I was hurt n so I didn’t talk to him for like 10 days.Then on the 11th day:
He was like, “ Where were u? I thought u changed your number! U know how disturbed I was? I was gonna cal your parents” .I just replied , “I was busy n din feel the need to reply so”.
Now this guy sent me a msg with a kissing smiley.Calls me very often.I hardly ever call him or text him now.If he does, i do talk to him. But hes all formal with me while talking and so am i. I like him a lot n want to be with him.But hes being so cold..sometimes hes like..he wants me badly..he has always wanted me..but the other side..am his best friend..he loves me as a friend! What should I do? Does this guy has anything for me or what?
