Being mean.

Wow, it really does work. When you are mean to the girls that you are just meeting and don't really know, you acheive that status of 'unattainable' or 'hard to get', which is actually on the spectrum of charming.

Here, i stole an article from The Toronto Star (because they take them down after a week) and put it on my site, all about charm, including how being mean works:

[URL=http://moeburn.homelinux.com/charm.html]http://moeburn.homelinux.com/charm.html[/URL]

Perhaps the objective isn't simply to be mean, but to be brave enough to be agressive. But man, when you are denying yourself of your true feelings, it is really hard to keep it up. Sometimes you just want to give in to your feelings, and you know you will have to at some point, it is hard to figure out when that is, anyone with experience have any advice?

you guys are finally starting to GET IT!!!!!!!

and it's not about being mean, but it's being playfully mocking
mean: "shut the **** up.."
playfully mocking: "if you talked any more than you already did..."

ok? ok!

which is funny and cocky :P