sticky situation

Hi, so i like this one girl, we text a lot but when we are in school she just get with other guy's, acting flirty with them and so on, i'm so jealous i can't watch it happening and with every day she just getting more space between me and her, we talk, i do a lot of good things for her, she was way closer to me before, all the huging and touching sitting close i miss it :(
I asked her to go somewhere in the weekend, she agreed, but with every day i'm thinking if i will go on a date and the flirting with other guy's after the date continue's i will burst...

What i need to do maybe forget her and live on? Or go on that date, i'm really depressed now... :(

Help me good people :)

Sorry for the grammar english is not my native language :)

How old are you (both of you)?

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Originally Posted by ammi00 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

How old are you (both of you)?

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Tell me :) Do you want to make fun or something? If so not a good idea :)

18 both :)

You shouldn't view your outing as a 'date' unless you have made it clear that is actually is a 'date'. It seems like she views you as more of a friend than anything, and I am willing to bet that you are not the only guy that feels the same way. At 18 she either...

- doesn't realize that her flirting and close friendships are causing many guys to have real feelings for her
- is an attention whore
or
- flirts/befriends guys to use them to get material things

Either way your best bet is to be honest about your feelings and see what she says. However, be aware that there is a distinct possibility that she doesn't have the same interest in you. State your feelings, but don't expect anything. Then go from there.