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I know it depends on the girl but...
The first obvious, when it comes to sexual relations Does size matter?
I have some acne but I am still confident and seem to have a good time with girl If it isn't too bad, how does acne come into play?
Body flaws: Scars, marks, other informaliities How would these also affect ones attraction?
If you have any other advice feel free to add
I think you might want to reformulate some of your questions. Anyway...
1. For me size (somehow) matters. I'd like it around 6 inches. I also need to like the way it looks, hah :)
* Of course, it's much more important what the guy knows to do with it, but I won't talk about that.
2. I like clean & healthy skin. I wanna be able to kiss/ lick/ touch my partner everywhere, so his skin should be nice.
3. I don't mind scars or birth marks. There is something "sexy" about some scars (as long as they aren't "look, I cut myself" type of scars), and I'm also interested in the story behind them. Birth marks are cute. I don't like moles though.
Size matters: small sucks and big hurts.
Ance: turns me off in a big way but if love came first and ance developed later I'd deal- but I think specialists can clean this up
Deforities: dratically depends: I'm a fan of scars (though not disfiguring ones) like little battle scars from whatever sport, whatever event- that sort of thing, to me is sexy. But it hugely depends.
Different sized penis fit better in different sized viginas. For me size never mattered because I've had crappy sex with larger sized and had amazing sex with small and vice versa......it's all about how you use it. As for imperfections it depends on the individual, some are picky and have a preference, some not so much. I've dated unattractive and good looking. Short fat skinny or tall, I love them all!
Rephrase the questions and ask them to yourself:
If a girl has a bat cave vagina with big ol roast beef lips, do you think you'd enjoy the sex? What if she was so tight that you couldn't even get your dick inside?
Would you date a girl with acne, and what's the most severe kind of acne you'd tolerate?
Would you date a girl who has scars/marks/imperfection?
That should clarify things for you. Girls aren't much different from guys.
By the time I see a man naked, I am predisposed to accept the size he has because I like him. Too big is scary because it can hurt and too small makes it more challenging to just enjoy without issues. If I got to design a man he would have average length and fairly large in girth. I had experienced a wide variety of lengths with similar overall experience. Then I met a guy who happened to be about average in length but large in girth and I was amazed. But that's not a prerequisite, just a happy bonus.
If a guy was confident and fun and otherwise attractive, I would overlook acne.
Minor scars and marks are just character and I think guys get a bigger pass here because flawless and silky skin is more of a feminine ideal. My ex had a minor skin cancer removed and he obsessed with trying to minimize this tiny scar on his hand. And all his female friends and acquaintances laughed because nobody thinks a minor scar on a guy would even cause a blink. Really, I think it would have to be a large scar on the face before it would even cause a woman to pause and consider it at all.
I personally think size doesn't matter much because 1) most women cannot orgasm from intercourse anyway, and so a man with a more talented tongue or flexible digits is a better find than a guy with a huge package and 2) there are always dildos/strap-ons/any manner of other things to get in and get the lady satisfied.
Acne can be pretty manageable, and in certain girls, overlooked.
I have yet to meet a girl that thought a guy was unattractive because of a scar. Unless you're the Opera Phantom, you should be fine.
well, all good points except for scars; scars are more of a masculine trait. we like men who go into battle. we like warriors. i think this has just been a biological certainty since the days of old.
but a girl with scars.. well, i don't think that's as attractive to a man.
Is this really true? I am no longer sure. Because I was perfectly happy with the idea that I could not orgasm from intercourse. It happened a few times by a happy coincidence and I realized I could. And then I realized that with sufficient penile girth, it is actually not even a question of if, but how many times. So now I am thinking that maybe any girl CAN, but most guys don't know how to make it happen and most gals don't know it's an option. Or maybe I am wrong, but it is a hypothesis.Quote:
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you can. it's not even that uncommon.Quote:
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