6yrs and no marriage?? Advice, thoughts and comments plz!!
Hi,
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs now. I love him and I know he loves me. We are happier now then we've ever been. I'm happy where our relationship stands for now, but eventually I want to get married. We got a house, next I want to get married and have children. I've brought it to his attention and it never ends well. His response is "why do you want to mess up a perfect thing by getting married?" I understand that he's seen so many unhappy marriages between his family and friends, but not all marriages end in divorce. I try to tell him that we don't have to fall into that category. I know what I want and thats him, but if we can't be on the same page I don't think I can do this anymore. I just don't want to make the wrong decision. I try not to bring it up too much, because I don't want to scare him and push him away. I'm 26 and he's about to be 30. We aren't getting any younger!!
Please give me any advice, your thoughts and point of views. Any feedback is appreciated.