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This is my problem, I don't know how to ask a close friend out. I'm afraid of being rejected because it might ruin our relationship, yet I'm pretty sure she likes me a lot (everybody else says she won't reject me). And there's even a bigger problem, I have to ask her out by june 3rd. Could anybody please tell me what to say, what to do, anything! I really need HELP!
You could ask another friend to help ask him if he likes you
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first...june 3rd..what's the rush, that is next year lol. about your friend..i can honestly say that i know [b]exactly[b] where you stand. i have this friend that i've been talking to for the last 3 years. i mean i got to know her so good that i know her inside and out. i am probably the person that knows her best. i would say that if you're craving to start a relaionship with your friend..ask yourself why? would you be willing to give up everything if you get rejected? you know that she won't think of you different, but things might chance. attraction always has a werid way of doing that to people. but are you willing to lose it all?
if not, they why the relationship?? yes she might make you feel how you want, but that is because she'll be there for you gf or not. that is one of the great things about a friend. they're there for you reguardless. if you feel that you want to start a relationship with her, i suggest that you hint at her. casually flirt with her and take notice of her reactions. that's the start of it all. raverboy
The best is to just ask her. Just say, "Hey i was wondering if you'd like to take our relationship past friendship." Or if you don't wanna be so obvious... Just ask if you can kiss her. Worked for me.
What I learned is that you don' tneed to be a gentlement, and you don't need to be Romeo, all you need is confidence.
June 3rd, that means EIGHT ****ING MONTHS
Why the rush? Maybe wait until 2004...