Moving Forward With Physical Intimacy

ok guys, I was talking with this girl (who's a good friend) about megan who had just left my house today. look:

LTsK8eR2gO (8:41:09 PM): megan left
qt piebabe (8:41:16 PM): and?! did you guyz do nething?
LTsK8eR2gO (8:41:23 PM): we made out the whole god damn time
LTsK8eR2gO (8:41:28 PM): i got closer to her tits
LTsK8eR2gO (8:41:32 PM): cuz: this is what happened
LTsK8eR2gO (8:41:49 PM): she was grabbing my nose and it hurt and i asked her to let go twice, then i grabbed her tits
LTsK8eR2gO (8:41:56 PM): then she let go quickly
LTsK8eR2gO (8:41:59 PM): but she was laughing about it
LTsK8eR2gO (8:42:16 PM): and then she repeatedly grabbed my nose, but blocked my hands from getting to her boobs
qt piebabe (8:42:22 PM): ahahh good!! ur getting closer ;-)
LTsK8eR2gO (8:42:27 PM): lmao
qt piebabe (8:42:34 PM): lol
LTsK8eR2gO (8:42:44 PM): but yeah
LTsK8eR2gO (8:42:55 PM): occasionally when we made out my fingertips would lay on them
LTsK8eR2gO (8:43:03 PM): but she's not ready for me to play with them
qt piebabe (8:43:07 PM): oh wow
LTsK8eR2gO (8:43:08 PM): u know what i mean
qt piebabe (8:43:13 PM): haha yeah
LTsK8eR2gO (8:43:22 PM): hmmm.. i wonder how much longer it will take
qt piebabe (8:44:18 PM): lol till what?
LTsK8eR2gO (8:44:25 PM): till she'll be ready for me to play with them
qt piebabe (8:44:31 PM): oo ask her
LTsK8eR2gO (8:45:42 PM): wtf?
LTsK8eR2gO (8:45:44 PM): lol
qt piebabe (8:45:54 PM): yea seriously ask her
LTsK8eR2gO (8:45:55 PM): no! i'm not gonna say "hey when will u let me play with ur tits"
qt piebabe (8:46:08 PM): yeah ask her
LTsK8eR2gO (8:46:15 PM): u want me to get slapped?
LTsK8eR2gO (8:46:17 PM): hahah
qt piebabe (8:46:20 PM): haha
LTsK8eR2gO (8:47:03 PM): dude what would that help with?
qt piebabe (8:47:22 PM): well i mean my bfs ask me
LTsK8eR2gO (8:49:11 PM): and how do u take it?
qt piebabe (8:49:19 PM): idc im happy they asked

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now, i'm sure you guys think this thread is completely retarded, but i'm 14 years old and i'm her first bf so give me a break and answer honestly.. how do I approach this subject? should I even do it at all or do I just play it cool and wait?

Hard to say. I'd say wait, but it might not hurt to talk about it. Just be gentle in your wording. From what I remember, she's more emotional than one could imagine. So be careful, friend.

I'd say just whenever you make out with her and stuff, just move your hands around there and let her put your hands where she wants them. The only problem is she may not do that since your her first bf. Just go slowly when you do it. Getting her in the mood is the key to doing it. Work up to it ;) Don't make it your sole goal though, just make it a part of everything.

Oh--that is absolutely not my only goal with her. I want a long-term relationship with this girl. This is how it went:

4th month - First hug
5th month - First kiss
6th month - make out
7th month - ass conquered

and here I am in the 8th month, and I want to make it niceeee lol

Wow, you waited 4 months just to hug her? And five months to kiss her? Yet you said to me it was best to kiss her on the end of the second date? Huh? How does that work? You told me to do something totally different than what you actually did. Hmmm. Just explain that to me.

As for the boobs, maybe talk about it beforehand. Or you could make out with her and put your hands near her boobs, but not quite on them. She'll get the hint. Good luck getting to second base and keep us posted.

You will be better off asking her than simply grabbing them like an ass-bandit.

Do THAT, and you will get slapped until your about 19, at which times chicks think you are a fag if you haven't touched her tits by the 8th month.

When you guys are making out, tell her you want to go "a little further" and take your shirts off. See what she says. If she says she isnt ready yet, then no big deal...keep "making out".

Also, dont ask her at some other weird time..."Strike when the iron is hot" if you understand that analogy. Only do it when you guys are getting "intimate" if that's what you wanna call it.

Come back and let us know how it went.