Abstinence or premarital sex?
hi 18 year old college freshman here.. met an amazing girl, been dating for 4 months and we started talking about sex. I told her I expect to get to that stage one day and she said okay. Then she opened up a little as I encourage her to do so because communication is top of the list for a good relationship and she told me she didn't want sex till after marriage.:( Yes I am her first boyfriend and yes she is 18... and yes she is a shy girl.
I mean.. I'm on the fence on this one, to me it means this girl is serious, conservative, and very moral in character, but on the other hand... I want sex.. not now.. but eventually, I see sex as a stage a serious relationship reaches and needs to reach because of sexual compatibility... i don't want to get married and find out that sex with her won't work...:upset: I'm sorta worried.. but I don't want to convince her to have sex with me one day.. but what are your guy's insight on this?