This is how i fell... Too horny for someone that cant handle it

Well i m trying to find some answers here.
he is the love of my life, we are together 3 years, and in the first year of sex was wonderful. He was hard all the time just by being near me.
Now things are different for the past 2 years.
He can stay like 5 days without sex, he rarely starts something, and when he or I do, all he does is touch my boobs and finger me, an want me to b*** him. Then he comes and make me come using finger and mouth. thats it lol
I quite dont understand but he never put it in unless i ask for it. And something is for sure: he is having trouble with endurance. I make it hard and when its time to party he is not that hard anymore. It is so frustrating, ive never had this problem before and i feel like crap. Sometimes i wonder if hes gay, or doesnt like me anymore, or doesnt think im attractive or hot or i dont know.
I just think, if its to finger me, i can do it myself. I dont want a man just to finger me and make me come using mouth and fingers.
I miss the everything sex part i dont have.
whats going on with him? Is he gay? Is he having issue with endurance and needs a doctor ? But everything i bring it up he starts a fight saying shit to me and getting all defensive.
Dont know what to do
Help me please

You have to talk to him about this - there is no other answer

You have to ask him this. I do not think a gay man would want keep going down on a woman but who knows?

Ouch. I have heard and read stories about men going throught these phases. It may pass with or without help.

I really hope you dont make a hasty decision and leave him for it. What if you TELL him that you are making an investment in your love for him and dragging his ass in to see a specialist before it hurts his ego/pride more. And that your not an idiot, you can see right thru him.
And if he REALLY fights you on it, tell him stubborness wont work. You want him inside you soon as possible! :)

Is that assertive enough? He cant deny you showing love in that. You want to take care of business and not let him suffer anymore.
Grab the bull by the horns. 3 years is a good chunk you know this. And he seems to be trying to please you any way he can otherwise yeah?


If hes got secrets well than you saying this may end up being the catalyst that 'lets the cat out of the bag' before you drag him in.

"he is the love of my life, we are together 3 years, and in the first year of sex was wonderful. He was hard all the time just by being near me."

This is a gift. After 6 years my bf was still this way and all the time. Between his excellent nose and his imagination, he could do it in his sleep.