Originally Posted by
SelflessnHumble
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Would you like the truth, or a sugar coated lie?
Based on your posts the fist sentence holds true...Why you ask?
I've been just as needy, and have dated people that just couldn't make a decision as to what to do, so they overstepped/overstated their intentions when there was no need.
They constantly texted me to see if I needed anything, thought about me concerning an activity...But dude: she is SICK! Leave her be so she can rest and get better.
If she really wanted to talk to you: don't you think she would have texted or even called you???
All you had to do is to (ONCE) tell her: hey sweetie, I know you're not feeling well so I hope you get better, and if you need anything I'm here for you!" The end.
In this way it comes off as being thoughtful...Your way comes off as being needy, see the difference?
It also stands to reason that if you are hyper/overly sensitive: women hate this in men as well...They don't want their men
to be or feel more insecure than they do, they don't like the competition.